tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post2886432206085682168..comments2024-03-27T13:22:58.455-07:00Comments on Eye on the Edge: Random Sunday morning thoughtsDJanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07152183871573797791noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-59288975900425084772011-07-01T14:45:03.379-07:002011-07-01T14:45:03.379-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Stella Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06699491230987143490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-80007716667205451552011-06-30T20:41:22.043-07:002011-06-30T20:41:22.043-07:00I just heard a story on NPR about people who have ...I just heard a story on NPR about people who have been walking out of Tree of Life at the theater, even some asking for their money back. The film apparently is not what they expected (no car crash chase scenes, apparently??!!) Anyway, the NPR story now has motivated me to want to see it.Robert the Skeptichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10863488312604865183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-43236384337326800582011-06-28T08:02:06.579-07:002011-06-28T08:02:06.579-07:00Well, for someone who wasn't sure about their ...Well, for someone who wasn't sure about their post, you did an excellent job of leaving us with something to think about. I have watched the trailer for that movie, but I don't think it's playing here yet. I agree with your assessement on life with the codicil that although we live in a vast Universe and we are very small, we add to energy by merely living. It is in our struggle, and in our joys, that the Universe expands. So in that light we are very important. Great post.Nancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13178290697351352495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-5940324979919412572011-06-27T09:55:59.089-07:002011-06-27T09:55:59.089-07:00Still in recovery from my heart surgery, I am very...Still in recovery from my heart surgery, I am very aware that I am alive after my second brush with death. That film, Tree of Life sounds very interesting, I will watch for it.Robert the Skeptichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10863488312604865183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-91590753365957251702011-06-27T01:26:00.890-07:002011-06-27T01:26:00.890-07:00I don't think you dwell on loss. Your experie...I don't think you dwell on loss. Your experiences are what made you who you are, so of course you write about your losses. <br /><br />I like the idea of connectedness. I have a sense that I grow in wisdom as I grow older and I wonder if one day I will have a flash of understanding where everything becomes clear...and then I'm gone. Pity we can't understand all while we're here, isn't it?<br /><br />I see Google doesn't recognize me today...JannAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-20850289587016907512011-06-26T20:00:47.812-07:002011-06-26T20:00:47.812-07:00You've written of much here. I try never to r...You've written of much here. I try never to read other comments before I respond to what you have written, so I won't be distracted by what others say. So, here goes...<br /><br />I look forward to your posts on Sunday. Sometimes I think of you as my mentor. I think about you and what you say. I have learned much from you. The connection that is made through this blogsphere are sometimes hard to understand. Those who don't blog would most likely not understand at all. Serious bloggers such as yourself have created a certain vulnerability by sharing their stories as honestly and deeply as you have. This vulnerability is scary. It also creates a tension when we think of our readers. I see what Rita is saying in her last line. She is tell you to write from your heart. I agree with her. <br /><br />As far as loss goes, I am reminded of Billy Collins saying that poets only write about death. There is some truth to that. In life, we all have loss. Those who have suffered great loss can know that the irony of all of this is that our souls are expanded and deepened by the depth of our loss.Sally Wesselyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06470453773515491625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-26218608170885361082011-06-26T19:53:31.879-07:002011-06-26T19:53:31.879-07:00Coming back to the issue of your losses is a very ...Coming back to the issue of your losses is a very positive activity in your life. It may be a bit of a shock when a movie brings up the topic.<br /> We cannot ignore our losses. It's healthy to deal withthemby discussing and writing. <br /> I'll never forget a young man who had lost his first child when he gave me a piece of writing about the loss . I felt inadequate to respond to him but I think it helped him go on with his life.<br /> My Dad lost an eleven year old daughter. I don't think he ever came to terms with his loss. I understand more now what he experienced and why it was so difficult.<br /> Keep on writing about your losses. It helps others to see the world with more clarity.<br /> As always I enjoy your posts.Reddhttp://hiawathahouse.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-71554380441186193862011-06-26T16:13:18.697-07:002011-06-26T16:13:18.697-07:00What a wonderful post!! I have to go back and rea...What a wonderful post!! I have to go back and read it again. I'm waiting for that movie to come out on DVD so I can rent it.<br /><br />We are each alone and separate--yet we are all together and connected at the same time. This is a world of connected opposites. You can never know the true brightness of light if you have not experienced the depths of darkness. Life is absolutely amazing! Painful, joyous, dull, frightening, and so glorious it will make your soul sing!<br /><br />Yes! Speak from your heart, Lady! Your blog is for you, but we hear you. From one speck to another--I am honored to listen. :):)Ritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02043285884495492598noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-16239505793030410332011-06-26T14:11:58.407-07:002011-06-26T14:11:58.407-07:00Hi DJan, great review and I look forward to seeing...Hi DJan, great review and I look forward to seeing this film (warts and all). Saw your note over at TroutBirder's where you raised an interesting point: indeed it's hard for those who do not actively connect with nature (flyfishing, birdwatching, hiking/backpacking etc) to understand the emotional attachment that outdoorsy folks have to particular places. For the Maclean (RiverRunsThroughIt) family, that emotional attachment to the BigBlackfoot encompassed all the emotions they could not express about each other, all the things they could not say to each other. And that just scratched the surface. Dinesen's OutOfAfrica and Redford's film of the book capture that sense of place, too,EcoRoverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07294159049375690786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-89997849902473839382011-06-26T13:27:54.683-07:002011-06-26T13:27:54.683-07:00What a thoughtful and moving post but then I expec...What a thoughtful and moving post but then I expect no less from you. Please keep them coming. There is usually a paragraph, sentence, or even the whole post that touches each of us in different ways.Arkansas Pattihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14156004753267665579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-5094493207968325022011-06-26T13:22:27.263-07:002011-06-26T13:22:27.263-07:00It's all a mystery, isn't it? We reach out...It's all a mystery, isn't it? We reach out to each other and touch each other in ways that we can't know simply by our opening our hearts. It gives courage to say what's real for us when others speak their truth. Thanks.Grandmother Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18169464484379536529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-63877252449052801442011-06-26T10:40:39.609-07:002011-06-26T10:40:39.609-07:00Please don't ever stop doing these weekly post...Please don't ever stop doing these weekly posts!<br />They're absolutely beautiful, thought-provoking, and so insightful that I always come away comforted and astonished by what you have written. And now I must see this movie!Trishhttp://www.synchrosecrets.com/synchrosecretsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-5164905132877725902011-06-26T09:54:57.923-07:002011-06-26T09:54:57.923-07:00This is a great, thoughtful post. I've got a ...This is a great, thoughtful post. I've got a couple of thoughts:<br /><br />First, the kingdom of God is within us. I believe we're all part of the vast, not separate from it.<br /><br />Second, we are who we are partly because of our losses. Once we incorporate them, we're free to grow and become more. I remember a time right after my husband left me for another woman that I thought the rest of my life would be leftovers. I was 37 then. Now, at 63, I see it all much, much differently.<br /><br />Give me a call the next time you're in Snohomish. I'd like to get together again.Linda Myershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05706455533282204519noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-23346437490661210592011-06-26T09:43:04.100-07:002011-06-26T09:43:04.100-07:00Thank you for writing this post. We are alone and ...Thank you for writing this post. We are alone and separate from one another, but I am thankful for the "community". I think the movie and your tossing and turning sparked your brain to think at a wonderfully reflective level.justme_alivehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03912966969702106429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-59833402149151692572011-06-26T09:06:28.898-07:002011-06-26T09:06:28.898-07:00It is true that we are mere specks in the universe...It is true that we are mere specks in the universe, but so difficult to comprehend when we are so consumed by me, myself, and I.<br /><br />As for your weekly blog, I always look forward to reading it, DJan. Don't stop!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-15554808164632746222011-06-26T08:40:48.694-07:002011-06-26T08:40:48.694-07:00It's funny that you should mention "insig...It's funny that you should mention "insignificant little specks" because lately I haven't been able to get these George Harrison lyrics out of my head:<br /><br />Try to realize it's all within yourself<br />No one else can make you change<br />And to see you're really only very small<br />And life flows on within you and without youBuzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17820913066052044418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-83040037234711670282011-06-26T08:33:22.540-07:002011-06-26T08:33:22.540-07:00DJan, you speak of having the knowledge that you h...DJan, you speak of having the knowledge that you have grown past the place you were when you began this blog. I too have been understanding that my hopes for my blog have been happening every month and each year till I am at a place of release now and find myself moving on to the joys and interests in the present. I wish you well in this new discovery for you and for all the happiness still to experience in your life here.CiCihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08615265608675467505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-13421080240638208442011-06-26T08:02:56.789-07:002011-06-26T08:02:56.789-07:00DJan, what a beautiful, honest and thoughtful post...DJan, what a beautiful, honest and thoughtful post. I've been aching to see Tree of Life, knowing that it is dense and deep and not everyone's cup of tea. I read a post about an art theater posting a notice about the movie so people wouldn't complain and ask for their money back, isn't that strange? Wish I could find the link for you...<br />I could reread and quote lines you wrote here for hours. I don't think you spend too much time dwelling on your loss here, but I think that when you do, it is cathartic and helpful to those of us who struggle in our own ways as well. And I agree that while we are insignificant specks, we are as valid and real as any other speck in the universe. I believe that it takes a brave soul to understand this and still carry on with love and honesty and a desire for meaningful connections in the brief lives we are gifted with. I believe too in the rightness of love and the threads that connect us all, past present and future. Whenever reality and being thoughts start to panic me, I think about my Dad, how he always chose hope and laughter over fear and worry, and he was ever grateful to be here, and so in love with the wonders of this world. I can feel that energy somedays, and it helps me stay right.<br />Thanks for posting such heart felt thoughts. I can't wait to see the movie to discover what feelings it will pluck from me. Terrence Malick is deep, deep. It's a wonder movies like his can get made. It's also a wonder that the magic of the internet lets random specks such as ourselves connect and share in such a nurturing way. Have a great day.Melhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10114884092474969555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-2507367966554055542011-06-26T07:54:27.760-07:002011-06-26T07:54:27.760-07:00I wouldn't say you've held on too long to ...I wouldn't say you've held on too long to your losses. It has sounded to me that you have been exploring them after maybe avoiding them for many years. Don't forget why you began this blog. I haven't.<br /><br />"My life has been filled with edges. I debated about the title of this blog for awhile, but I truly feel myself on the edge, often. Not only when I'm getting ready to exit an airplane (I've got a few jumps), or when I'm about to try something new, like this, but when life deals me with a real whammy. (I've had a few of those, too.) I want to write without boundaries about the edges in my life."<br /><br />We do not grow through smooth sailing but through adversity. You've been delving through the layers of loss to see who you were and who you've become. You started this blog to write for yourself, not for us. Of course, it's lovely to have followers, but I don't think you're going to get much out of this if you are writing for us. And if you're not getting anything out of this, what's the point?<br /><br />Loss is a common thread in your life. But we can't be thankful for what we have until we either don't have it anymore or until we are shown how fortunate we are because we still have something/one and we have seen that others do not. Perhaps because you've become so used to seeing the loss side of the coin you've become a bit myopic and cannot see how much gratitude you both display and inspire. For all the 'edges' in your life you show thanks for the people and experiences that have supported you and balanced your life. You've also shown me that there is so very much to be thankful for, including the communication found here in the blogworld. <br /><br />Happy Sunday. As always, thank you for your honesty.Whitney Leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07766231420593480962noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-34743172280554081222011-06-26T06:45:35.986-07:002011-06-26T06:45:35.986-07:00"We are such insignificant little specks in t...<i>"We are such insignificant little specks in the vast universe"</i> True, yet paradoxically we are irrevocably interconnected within it. As we transition from the delusion of duality and become one with the all, death becomes birth, and we realize it has always been this way.Jameshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08295794524135726030noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197597102880101691.post-23930510001694913712011-06-26T06:41:42.847-07:002011-06-26T06:41:42.847-07:00This is an outstanding post. Isn't it wonderfu...This is an outstanding post. Isn't it wonderful when we let go and let the words flow? Just look at what you've shared! It's beautiful and meaningful. <br /><br />I am beyond grateful for our connection. I believe we each have an identity that is a part of the whole, "a drop of water one with the ocean, a ray of light, one with the sun," and we are One, though we tend to perceive ourselves as separate. The universe and everything in it is connected and essential. Everything/everyone we believe we have lost, is still present, still connected to us, to all Life. IMHO. <br /><br />I do not have answers, only a sense about things, and that is what feels Right, on a higher level. Right now. :) As my thought expands and becomes more aware, my ideas about Life will as well. It seems to be happening all around the Universe, starting with how much it has expanded due to the Hubble telescope and due to people willing to Look and Listen.<br /><br />Thank you, DJan for this Sunday morning Food for Thought, and for sharing your thoughts around this provocative movie. I look forward to it every much. It is Malick's unorthodox directing and vision of life that makes him stand out from among all the rest. He never leaves us where we started. That's film making as art. It transforms us, if we're willing.<br /><br />I'm so grateful for You.Teresa Evangelinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05495114564099989481noreply@blogger.com