I stepped from Plank to Plank
A slow and cautious way
The Stars about my Head I felt
About my feet the Sea.

I knew not but the next
Would be my final inch -
This gave me that precarious Gait
Some call Experience.

Emily Dickinson, c. 1864

Sunday, December 28, 2025

It turned c-c-COLD after the rain fell

Along the waterfront selfie

I asked Steve if we would take a picture of us while we walked along Squalicum Harbor on Saturday morning. Our first walk since he returned from Hawaii to visit his mother for Christmas. His daughter Sara was also there, so they had a very nice time in warm tropical climes. Then they had to return to a very frigid, albeit sunny, Washington State.

We walked somewhere around five miles, my first good workout in at least a week, maybe more. It feels good to sit here in my favorite chair, having had such a good time in the cold, but feeling bad that I had forgotten my sunglasses and couldn't find my hat with a visor. Those were all serious drawbacks as I dealt with the incredible sunshine and frosty weather. It sure felt like winter, and I was glad that the rain has left us for awhile, but there could have been an in-between period. But no. In that picture taken in yesterday's weather, it isn't possible for you to see the wind, too, which obviously makes it seem colder. It was barely at the freezing mark, and the strong winds made it feel even colder. Brrr!

We have been relatively warm, considering that it is now winter. Our air temperature a couple of days ago was at least twenty degrees warmer than today's. We have turned a corner and will probably even get some snow here eventually. I was so glad we didn't have freezing sidewalks and roads in our neighborhood. I am still recovering from that icy fall last February. I sincerely hope I don't make that mistake again. I found my strap-on spikes and will not fail to use them if I decide to go out when it's slippery. The weather is always a good way to begin a post that I need to write, without any idea what to write about. It's my self-induced "job" to get something up here, even when nothing immediatcly comes to mind. I could remember previous moments when I was in this same mindset, or I could reminisce about days gone by. Or... I am in a quandary of my own making. Let's start with the good news.

SG has successfully been added to those available to use the Para-Transit bus. His situation has changed, now that he can arrange for the bus system to pick him up at home and take him to his doctor appointments. He starts the new treatment for his blood disorder on January 7th, with a monthly injection instead of daily pills. I read all about it and think it will probably be less difficult to deal with, but who knows with these strong and fairly new drugs? At least our insurance plan covers it.

His broken arm is not hurting him all the time, and he even did his own laundry yesterday, by making the basket into two loads and carefully navigating the stairs to the laundry room. He now has the ability to get to the orthopedic surgeon's office to get his elbow fixed. He's very resourceful and careful not to take another fall.

I am beginning to think that those eye injections helped slow down the progression of the geographic atrophy, since the last few months without them doesn't seem to have made a difference in my ability to see with my left eye's central vision. I thought by now I'd be unable to see well enough to write these posts, but I am still the same, or about the same, as when I stopped taking them. I simply couldn't afford the cost, not to mention the discomfort of getting them. So that's another bit of good news.

I'll talk to my sister Norma Jean on FaceTime on Wednesday and will find out how she's been since losing her fifteen-year-old dog last month. These furry companions just don't live long enough to keep from having to cope with such a loss every decade or so. On aggregate, though, our situation is on the upswing, both physically and mentally. At least we all still have our ability to think and use our brains. There are many people in their eighties who don't have that ability any longer. I might be reaching here to find things to be happy about, but hey, you do what you can to keep going when life gets hard, right?

I am also glad that we are almost through the holiday season. When you don't have family around, you rely on friends to make things interesting. My time with John, my time with Steve and other dear friends makes my world much brighter than it would otherwise be. And having my guy getting stronger every day, well, it makes every moment feel like a blessing. Today John will take me to our usual Sunday breakfast (I'm looking forward to it) and then come home to a warm, safe place during the cold and wind. I am content and filled with gladness that I am still here, still writing, still enjoying life. I hope you will be in the same situation, dear friends. Be well until we meet again next week.


4 comments:

ApacheDug said...

That's such a nice photo of you with your friend Steve, I love all the boats in the background. Here in Pittsburgh we don't have waterfront images like that it almost looks like a painting. This was so nice to read about SG, I was not aware he was that independent and resourceful! Especially with his disorder and arm, so big props to him. Very glad to read about your vision too it's not great news, but it's not bad either and that makes all the difference. Anyway, just nice to enjoy your Sunday read while I'm sipping my coffee here in Pittsburgh, if I don't talk to you again soon I hope you have a Happy New Year.

Anvilcloud said...

Life carries on, and you and we carry on with it. I hope you have a good week out there.

Linda Reeder said...

Once again I am awake too early, for me, on a Sunday morning, so after spending more than an hour in my warm bed trying to go back to sleep, I am bundled up in my chair in a cold house, trying to get my eyes to focus on my laptop.
I love Christmas, but once it's over I find I am ready to move on, although it will be a while before we undecorate, and I do love the lights on the Christmas tree. I turn them on first thing in the morning and turn them off last thing in the evening,
I see on my phone that it hit the freezing mark last night. It's 7:00 now but still too dark to see if there is frost. I'll check it out when I walk out to get the newspaper once I get going.
It's good to know you are still finding plenty of positives in your life. I am too. We'll keep on keeping on into another new year.

Rian said...

DJan, it sounds like you had a nice Christmas with SG and your friends (except for the cold). Here it was unusually warm for Christmas. DH and I even took a walk around the neighborhood and didn't even need jackets. Glad to hear that both of you are getting things worked out... both with SG's transportation and your continued posting. I was sorry to hear about your sister's dog passing. It's sad how much those fur babies are missed.
Hoping you continue to enjoy the holidays... and that 2026 will be a good one! (And please be careful on the ice... no more falls).