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| The Paratransit bus |
Last Tuesday, I spent most of the day trying to get this picture onto the website for my usual Tuesday post. I finally ended up posting it without any pictures, which was a first for me. There are many firsts happening these days, as SG and I make our way through the latest iteration of our daily lives. SG applied for and receives permission to use this transit system to get around, sincd with a shattered left elbow and his ongoing blood cancer causing all kinds of difficulties, he can now use this system to get around town.
I've seen this Paratransit bus in front of the Senior Center often, and he has now used it three times: once to get to the ortohpedic surgeon's office, and twice to get to the Cancer Center. There are no restrictions on use, that we know of anyway, and it's free and available to SG for the next three years.
He had great news at the ortho surgeon's office. They x-rayed the break from several angles and told him that surgery won't be necessary. It's healint nicely on its own, and he is to do some exercises, carefully at first, to regain some range of motion. But, unfortunately that was the only really good news he received this week.
Then, on Thursday, he went to see his oncologist to schedule his first injection of Aranesp, which has recently been found to be effective in increasing red blood cells (RBCs) in the treatment of MDS (Myelodysplastic Syndrome), which his oncologist says he most likely has. It can turn into leukemia, but not always, and now hopefully he is being successfully treated for MDS. Time will tell, but we are definitely hopeful.
He received his first injection of Aranesp on Thursday, a subcutaneous shot, which he said was not painful, just cold. But after he received the shot, his doctor said his red blood cell count was so low that he needed an infusion at the earliest possible time, which ended up being Friday, early in the morning. I left for my volunteer work just before, while he was waiting for the Paratransit bus to arrive. He tolerated the infusion well, but it took over three hours, and he was not there when I returned home around 1:00pm. I was understandably worried about him, but he texted me a couple of times from the Cancer Center to let me know he was still doing OK. Once I arrived home, I asked him how he was feeling, and he told me that already he was feeling stronger and more alert than he had experienced in quite awhile.
Last night, he learned that he will be receiving more infusions, weekly I suppose, until some later time. If he had not had such good response from the first one, I would be worried about all this flurry of activity. He is in good spirits, however, and I think part of that is caused by the infusion of whatever it is they are putting into his body. I wish I knew more, but he seems to be better, and whatever happens next, he is at least in the good hands of his oncologist and we have health coverage, which is more than many people have.
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| Mushrooms and moss |
I wish they could do something like an infusion for my eyes, but I suppose I should be grateful that I still have a little central vision in my left eye. It hasn't gotten worse, and with everything happening, I am grateful. I accidentally smashed my desk lamp to smithereens last week, and I realized that I was unable to clean it up myself, since I couldn't see the shards of glass covering the floor. It was another reminder that I am disabled with low vision, and I can't pretend it's not affecting my life in profound ways. If that Canadian procedure would help, I would find a way to do it, but all the research I have done shows that perhaps it might slow the progression. But that seems to have been accomplished with the dreaded shots. Nothing has changed in the longer term, but I am still able to see well enough to get around and to do my volunteer work, which means I still feel useful. But being old is getting harder. It's almost impossible to plan anything because our day-to-day life is so full of sudden changes.
However, life is puttering along as we learn to navigate our current situation. We have each other, we have the internet and our virtual family and many other positive things going on. I am grateful for what we are able to accomplish, even in the face of illness and low vision. There is always something to appreciate in my daily life, and one of them will be arriving at the front door to take me to breakfast (John).
With that, I wish you all good things, dear friends, and keep yourself and your loved ones close, safe in your heart. Be well.



7 comments:
That was promising stuff to read about SG, but I was sorry to read about the smashed desk lamp and needing help with the cleanup DJan. Shards of glass are a very scary thing, especially when your vision is that limited. You're facing each day a lot better than many I think, with courage and hope. And I very much hope your week ahead is a positive & happy one.
DJan, I know that you still drive, but I was just wondering if that paratransit bus is available for you also? Glad to hear that SG doesn't need surgery on his elbow... one bright light in your week. I have an elderly friend that tripped over a cement bump in the parking lot recently and hurt her elbow. She is in pain, but giving it a week to get better before she sees a doctor. And it sounds like the blood transfusions are helping SG!
As for your lamp, was SG able to clean up the glass shards? I've had a similar thing happen where I broke a little Santa statue that was by my plants. It fell behind and between all the big plants shattering into little pieces... I haven't been able to get to it yet.
Enjoy your breakfast with John this morning... and know that we are all thinking and praying for you and SG. Hugs and smiles, Rian
Thank you for sharing all of this so honestly. What comes through strongly is not just how much you and SG are carrying, but how much care, patience, and gratitude you still hold for one another. You continue to show such grace in navigating change, even when it arrives uninvited. Wishing you moments of ease, comfort, and calm ahead.
I love what John (John's Island) said. I agree. You and SG continue to hold each other dearly and navigate the bumps in life together. That is precious.
Rian, I haven't applied for the Paratransit bus yet, but it will be available to me when I can no longer see well enough to drive at all, I think. I only take very short trips to places I know well, but one day I will be able to give up my car and just take public transportation including Paratransit. Right now most of my trips are on regular bus routes.
Sticking with gratitude for what is still working is the way to go! And both of you seem to be doing that. Nonetheless, it's not easy. I hold you both in my heart each and every day.
You to keep soldiering on. That transit assistance seems to be a wonderful thing.
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